What is wrong with us, and why does it matter? B. Part I

Guntars Baikovs
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What does all of this have to do with our marriages, apart from enlightening us about our not-so-nice nature?

Too often, we have rather naïve ideas about who we are, how we are going about our relationships, and about how everyone is going to live happily ever after.

Especially at the beginning of a relationship, we are often naïve and overly positive about what drives us, about the extent of our self-control and what we are capable of in certain trying or tempting circumstances, and about what the other person may be capable of.
Relationships, marriages, love, romance, affection: these are beautiful things, delightful experiences. They light up our lives, give us wonderful times, and usually bring out the best of us. So, yes, give us more of that!

And while it lasts, we usually get to enjoy the best of what the other person is capable of. That is what we perceive: the best in the other person. We open ourselves to them, we trust them, we let them in, and that is all great.

But in reality, this honeymoon period doesn’t last forever. We need to be clear about what to expect after this period, and what we need to guard against. And the first thing to remember is our own fallen nature, and the fallen nature of our beloved ones.

Facing this reality head-on, we have a much better chance to preserve and nourish what is so great about our relationships.

Here we will briefly reflect on a few of the ways our sinful condition may manifest itself in our relationships. This is by no means a comprehensive a list, but hopefully it will give you a good head start. 

To be continued… 


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